The ReStory Blog

The Power of Kindness in Healing and Restoring Our Stories
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

The Power of Kindness in Healing and Restoring Our Stories

Unlock the transformative potential of kindness in the ReStory approach for healing and restoration. Discover how the kindness of God, as emphasized by Paul in Romans, serves as a powerful catalyst for repentance and positive change. As a counselor, embodying kindness becomes your greatest weapon against shame, offering individuals a space where they can be seen, accepted, and reminded of their worth in the journey toward a renewed and re-storyed life.

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The Battle with Evil and the Quest for Wholeness in Counseling
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

The Battle with Evil and the Quest for Wholeness in Counseling

Navigating the delicate balance between revealing the transformative power of counseling stories and respecting confidentiality, our blog delves into the intricate role of evil in the ReStory process. Evil, aiming to strip away the inherent glory God has bestowed upon each person, traps us in a narrative of shame, addiction, and fear. By immersing ourselves in others' narratives, our Restory approach seeks shalom, restoring right relationships and uncovering the forgotten first story – a journey toward healing, identity reclamation, and embracing the transformative hope embedded in the gospel.

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A Profound Journey with ReStory: Rediscover Your True Narrative
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

A Profound Journey with ReStory: Rediscover Your True Narrative

ReStory offers a revolutionary path to healing and transformation by delving into the sacred landscape of the human heart, blending theology, psychology, and ministry. Through a profound exploration of our first story—the divine design intended by God—we navigate the impact of past experiences and traumas. This integrative approach, extending beyond traditional therapy, invites us to rediscover our true identity, align with God's redemptive narrative, and experience lasting transformation.

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From 'I Do' to 'We Dare': Embracing the Unknown in Marital Sexuality
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

From 'I Do' to 'We Dare': Embracing the Unknown in Marital Sexuality

Marriage is a journey filled with emotional, spiritual, and physical connections. To truly understand the intricacies of marriage, we must delve into the often-overlooked aspect of sex. In this blog post, we explore the story of sex in marriage, uncovering the underlying narratives and societal influences that shape our experiences. Join us as we delve into the deeper meaning behind our sexual encounters and discover how understanding our stories can lead to a more fulfilling and intimate marriage.

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Beyond Vows: The Weight of Trust and the Reality of Betrayal in Marriage
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

Beyond Vows: The Weight of Trust and the Reality of Betrayal in Marriage

Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it requires a strong foundation of trust. Trust forms the basis of any successful relationship, and marriage is no exception. However, to truly understand trust, we must also acknowledge its counterpart - betrayal. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of trust in a marriage, the inevitability of betrayal, and how to navigate these delicate aspects of your relationship.

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The Loyalty Conundrum: Did You Really Marry Your In-Laws?
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

The Loyalty Conundrum: Did You Really Marry Your In-Laws?

Marriage, a beautiful journey filled with love, companionship, and, let's face it, a few challenges. According to research, three top-level conflicts consistently make their way to the forefront of marital struggles: money, sex, and, the focus of today's discussion, in-laws. Join us, Chris Bruno, a licensed professional counselor, and Tracy Johnson, a story work coach, as we delve into the intricate topic of marrying your in-laws and the often-overlooked aspect of loyalty in a marriage.

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Pre-Marital Counseling: The Untold Secrets Behind a Strong and Lasting Marriage
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

Pre-Marital Counseling: The Untold Secrets Behind a Strong and Lasting Marriage

Congratulations on this exciting chapter in your life as an engaged couple! The wedding plans are falling into place, and the anticipation is building. But before you take that walk down the aisle, there are some crucial things you should consider. As professional marriage counselors, we're here to share some valuable insights to help you prepare for a strong and lasting marriage.

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Ending Therapeutic Separation with Grace and Self-Compassion
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

Ending Therapeutic Separation with Grace and Self-Compassion

As a Christian marriage counselor, I've walked alongside numerous couples through therapeutic separations over the course of my career. Some have emerged from this journey with renewed love and commitment, while others have realized that it didn't lead to the reconciliation they hoped for. In this article, we'll discuss what happens when a therapeutic separation doesn't work and how to navigate this challenging phase with grace and self-compassion.

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Ending Therapeutic Separation: When and How to Move Forward
Chris Bruno Chris Bruno

Ending Therapeutic Separation: When and How to Move Forward

Now, we're going to tackle a crucial question that many couples in therapeutic separation face: When should you end it? If you've been following along with our previous articles, you know the importance of having clear expectations and time-bound markers throughout your therapeutic separation journey. Now, it's time to discuss the art of concluding this phase of healing in your marriage.

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